Friday, May 16, 2014

136) Learn Lessons - Giving Cheerfully

"Because it is in giving that we receive, in pardoning that we are pardoned." Saint Francis of Assisi

Warren Buffet donated $31 billion to charity. He lives in a modest three room house, drives his own car and carries no cellphone. Bill Gates donated $28 billion to charity. And, Andrew Carnegie, the steel tycoon, sold his business to do charity. He said: "The man who dies rich, dies disgraced." Mother Teresa dedicated her to the service of the poorest of the poor. Nelson Mandela spent 27 years in prison for a cause. And Jesus set the ultimate example in forgiveness, when he forgave his persecutors and tormentors from the cross. What do all these great people teach us? Living is in giving - not just in cash, but more importantly, giving ourselves through love.

How are we living our lives? Does giving in any form figure in our priorities? Do our children learn from us to give - of their little resources, time, effort and of themselves? Do they help another child who finds a subject difficult to understand? Do they share their tasty lunch with others? Do they make time to help grand-dad or grand-mum? Do they reach out to siblings who need help in some way? Do they understand the problems that parents face and offer to make some small sacrifice to help out? Do they forgive the wrongs done to them? Do they stop complaining and start appreciating others? Are they grateful to God for all the good things they have received in life? The list is endless. But you get the drift.

When we instruct them and set the right example, there is a fair chance that they will learn to give and make giving a way of life. God bless.

Saturday, May 10, 2014

The Child is Father of the Man

Tips and Techniques for Wise Parenting

 


Did the world suddenly change the day you became a parent? Since then have you wondered how best you will care for your baby who grows into your toddler and then into a young child? Is the prospect of raising a stable, happy and responsible child merely wishful thinking?

You are not alone in this quandary. Welcome to the club of puzzled parents - with the largest membership in the world! To most parents raising children as best they can, falls far short of unspoken expectations.

​This book, which is a storehouse of practical ideas, can help bridge the gap. LEAD PARENTING is the prescription.

Using the collective insight that he and his wife gained over decades of raising four children, the author offers a thought-provoking, relevant and actionable guide to parenting. His suggestions to change and grow as a parent are practical and specific. Examples and scenarios he presents are from real-life situations that parents encounter regularly and connect with readily. Going beyond immediate issues and challenges, he also looks at what is round the bend.

​The Child is Father of the Man – Tips and Techniques for Wise Parenting, is written with the conviction that parenting is the most important vocation in the world. Investing in this book could be the most significant decision you make towards managing your parenting role.
 

Paperback available on Amazon

Also available on Kindle and Kindle India


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Publisher: Wolf Creek Press, Oregon, USA.

ISBN: 9781497463387

ASIN: BOOJWXU18M
 

Paperback $9.99; E book $2.99

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Praise for the book


​"This book - a remarkable piece of work - will help parents earn their wings."

Theresa Cheung, Renowned Author of many books, including the series on 'Angels', published by Simon Schuster

"The Child is Father of the Man is a gold mine of tips, ideas and best practices on different aspects of parenting - guidelines, methods of disciplining, value education and traits to inculcate. The author answers many questions that parents today ask; how to lead by example, be caring parents, instruct children, and even how other considerations affect parenting, such as the relationship between spouses."

Kritika Srinivasan, Editor, ParentEdge, Singapore